What Is Fair Housing? Rights, Responsibilities, and Resources

Dusty Rhodes • October 23, 2023

If you’ve ever submitted an offer on a home or applied for a mortgage and felt you were treated unfairly, you aren’t alone. Housing discrimination has existed for decades and continues to be a major issue, although it often appears in subtle forms. Fair housing laws helped address many blatantly discriminatory practices, but you may be wondering what rights you have under fair housing laws and who enforces them.


The Fair Housing Act (FHA) provides rights, responsibilities, and resources for everyone at every stage of the housing process, including buyers, renters, real estate agents, lenders, and brokerages. Fair housing is critical to creating an equitable society free from discrimination.


Whether you’re a homebuyerrenter, or just want to learn more, this article is for you. Read on to learn what you need to know about fair housing, including what it is, the rights it provides, the responsibilities it enforces, and what to do if you’ve been discriminated against. 


What is fair housing?


Fair housing laws prohibit discrimination in the purchase, sale, rental, and financing of housing due to a person’s race, color, religion, sex, national origin, familial status, and disability. The Fair Housing Act protects everyone, including US citizens, green card holders, and undocumented residents.


The right to fair housing was established by the Fair Housing Act (Title VIII of the Civil Rights Act) in 1968 and has since been through dozens of amendments and executive orders expanding its reach. States, counties, and cities also often have specific housing laws that provide additional protections beyond those offered by the Fair Housing Act, such as prohibiting discrimination based on characteristics such as age, gender identity, honorably discharged veteran or military status, or source of income (including the receipt of income from affordable housing programs). 


Exceptions to the Fair Housing Act


The Fair Housing Act applies to most housing, but there are a few exceptions where the law doesn’t apply:


  • A dwelling with four or fewer units, if the owner lives in one of the units 
  • Single-family housing sold or rented without a broker, if the private owner doesn’t own more than three single-family homes at once 
  • Religious organizations and private clubs, as long as they don’t discriminate in membership
  • Specific HUD-approved housing for older persons 


Be cautious when applying for or purchasing housing that is exempt from the Fair Housing Act, and take your state and local laws into account as well, as they may offer additional protections beyond the federal law. 


Fair lending and mortgage discrimination


Fair housing also applies to mortgage lending. The Equal Credit Opportunity Act (part of the FHA) prohibits lenders from discriminating against borrowers based on a legally protected characteristic at any stage of the mortgage process, including but not limited to: 


  • Refusing to make a mortgage loan or provide other financial assistance for a dwelling
  • Refusing to provide information regarding loans
  • Imposing different terms or conditions on a loan, such as different interest rates, points, or fees
  • Discriminating in appraising a dwelling
  • Conditioning the availability of a loan on a person’s response to harassment
  • Refusing to purchase a loan


An example of mortgage discrimination is redlining, which is the process of denying mortgages, insurance, and other services to residents in specific areas. 


Fair housing rights and responsibilities


The Fair Housing Act provides protections for homebuyers and renters and responsibilities for home sellers, renters, and mortgage lenders. Let’s take a closer look.


Rights of the homebuyer


As a homebuyer, you’re protected from discrimination based on any legally protected characteristic in any part of the homebuying process. This includes financing, finding a real estate agent, touring homes, submitting offers, negotiating, and more.


Rights of the renter


The Fair Housing Act protects both buyers and renters. Here are a few important tenant rights (this is not an exhaustive list):


  • Right to a fair security deposit refund
  • Right to a notice of eviction and a timeframe in which to fix the situation
  • Right to a habitable home
  • Right to privacy
  • Right to quiet enjoyment


Homebuyers and renters can file discrimination complaints with HUD or file lawsuits in state or federal court. Retaliation against someone who filed a complaint is prohibited by law. 


Responsibilities of the home seller and landlord


Home sellers and landlords have to fairly entertain offers from everyone who might want to buy or rent your home. A seller and landlord cannot take any of the following actions because of a person’s race, religion, or other legally protected characteristics (this is not an exhaustive list):


  • Refuse to rent or sell housing 
  • Refuse to negotiate for housing
  • Make housing unavailable
  • Otherwise deny someone a home
  • Set different terms, conditions, or privileges for the sale or rental of a home 
  • Provide different housing services or facilities
  • Falsely deny that housing is available for inspection, sale, or rental 
  • Blockbusting, i.e., for profit, persuading or trying to convince homeowners to sell their homes by suggesting that people of a particular race or other protected characteristic have moved or are about to move into the neighborhood 
  • Deny someone access to, membership, or participation in any organization, facility, or service related to home sales and rentals (such as a multiple listing service), or discriminate against any person in the terms or conditions of access, membership, or participation 


Responsibilities of the lender


Fair lending guarantees the same lending opportunities to everyone, though lenders can legally make distinctions based on non-protected characteristics, such as credit scores. Lenders cannot discriminate against anybody based on race, national origin, or other legally protected characteristics. Some examples of discriminatory practices include (this is not an exhaustive list):


  • Unnecessary closing costs
  • Inflated broker or lender fees
  • Unnecessary recording fees
  • Excessive prepayment penalties
  • Refusing to consider a mortgage applicant’s disability-related income, such as SSI or SSDI
  • Refusing to provide mortgages to a person on parental leave
  • Changing mortgage loan terms at closing without the borrower’s consent


If you’re dealing with a mortgage broker or lender, take notes during and after the process. Also, ensure you receive these items at no cost: 


  • Good Faith Estimate 
  • Truth in Lending Disclosure Statement
  • Copy of your loan application
  • Mortgage Servicing Disclosure Statement 


Receiving a home loan can be a significant barrier to entry to homeownership and has historically been a discriminatory process. If you believe you have experienced lending discrimination, visit HUD’s housing discrimination complaint website to file a complaint. 


Responsibilities of the appraiser


home appraiser determines the value of a home so it can serve as collateral for a loan. Home appraisals are an essential part of the homebuying process.


Appraisers must fairly value every home they appraise and cannot charge excessive appraisal costs. Lowballing – making an excessively low appraisal based on the homeowners’ race or other protected characteristics – is prohibited. 


Responsibilities of the real estate agent


Real estate agents are bound by all fair housing laws and regulations. Many agents are also members of the National Association of REALTORS®, which provides an additional code of ethics


Redfin employs real estate agents and brokers, most of whom are REALTORS®. In addition to any FHA training all agents and brokers must complete as part of their licensing requirements, and the Code of Ethics REALTORS® must abide by, Redfin requires agents and brokers to complete an additional comprehensive FHA training. This training explains the FHA and the risks of non-compliance, Redfin’s Fair Housing Policy, and restates our commitment to honoring every customer. 



Examples of housing discrimination


While landlords and banks don’t often display ads saying “Whites only” or enforce restrictive covenants, discrimination persists in more subtle ways. Housing discrimination still disproportionately affects people of color and other minoritized groups. For example, studies indicate that same-sex couples and transgender persons often experience less favorable treatment than their straight and cisgender counterparts. 


Lending practices are another example. Outright discrimination is illegal, but racialized perceptions of value contributed to the devaluation of property and housing stock in neighborhoods of color.


All forms of housing discrimination are illegal and punishable by federal law, but subtle methods can be harder to prove.

 

Types of housing discrimination


Some common types of housing discrimination have names. While this list is not exhaustive, here are three common examples:


  • Redlining: Redlining was a racist tactic used by banks, lenders, and other businesses to deny mortgages, insurance, and healthcare to people living in certain areas that were deemed to be “hazardous.” This was once legal and supported by the federal Homeowners Loan Corporation (HOLC) but was outlawed by the Fair Housing Act. However, historically redlined communities are often still lower income and inhabited by minoritized groups. Redlining has also become shorthand for many types of historic race-based exclusionary tactics.
  • SteeringSteering in real estate is the illegal practice of guiding prospective homebuyers towards or away from certain areas based on a legally protected characteristic, such as race or gender. This can create homogeneous neighborhoods that often negatively impact immigrants, people of color, and LGBTQ+ folks while benefiting white, cisgendered homebuyers. Steering continues to be a form of discrimination.   
  • Lowballing: Lowballing is when a home appraiser makes an excessively low appraisal on the basis of race, religion, or other protected characteristics.


Who enforces fair housing?


The Department of Justice (DOJ) and HUD play a role in enforcing the FHA. HUD and its Fair Housing and Equal Opportunity (FHEO) office handle most enforcement and administration responsibilities. In contrast, the DOJ handles violations of the Fair Housing Act, which are punishable by law. Depending on the severity and frequency of the violations, the DOJ can institute criminal charges or take further legal action.


There are ten HUD regions in the US, each with an FHEO office. These offices manage fair housing complaints and administration in their specific region. Individual states, counties, and cities often have their own housing laws and enforcement agencies where people can file complaints and seek help. Nonprofit organizations can help as well and connect people with resources. 


What about fair lending?


In 2021, HUD and the Federal Housing Finance Administration (FHFA) agreed to work together to enforce the Fair Housing Act and to restate their commitment to fighting discrimination in the homebuying process. This is important because FHFA regulates Fannie Mae and Freddie Mac, the two major government-sponsored mortgage lenders. By partnering with HUD, the FHFA can help ensure Fannie Mae, Freddie Mac, and other mortgage lenders practice fair lending. 


Fair housing vs. equal housing opportunity


Fair housing, equal housing opportunity, and equal opportunity housing are different terms that all refer to the Fair Housing Act. The difference is in how they’re used. Fair housing generally refers to rules and regulations, while equal housing opportunity refers to real estate businesses that follow the rules. 


Equal housing opportunity is a common phrase used throughout the real estate industry. It indicates that a business advertises they abide by the Fair Housing Act.


How to identify companies that support fair housing 


Fair housing is the law; all brokerages, lenders, agents, landlords, or other housing providers must follow it. However, many people want to look for brokers or lenders that affirmatively show their commitment to fair housing. To find them, look for the Equal Housing Opportunity logo, statement, or slogan. 


Additionally, all advertising of residential real estate for sale and rent, and financing opportunities, must abide by fair housing laws. It’s illegal to make, print, or publish any notice, statement, or advertisement that indicates a preference, limitation, or discrimination because of race, color, or other legally protected characteristics. 


What to do if you experience housing discrimination


If you experience housing discrimination, your first step should be to file a complaint with HUD, your regional FHEO office, or your local housing authority. In cases where you may be evicted or otherwise lose your housing, HUD can assist you as soon as you file and expedite the judicial process. Retaliation against a complainant is illegal, so fight for your rights. 


If you don’t feel comfortable filing a complaint or want to assess your legal rights, consider consulting an attorney. You can also call a government hotline, such as your city or state’s Human Rights Commission. This can get you more immediate help.


Generally, taking notes during any housing, renting, lending consultations, and other real estate-related services is a good idea. A first-hand account can be helpful if you experience discrimination and wish to file a complaint. 



Final thoughts on fair housing: equal housing is a right


Fair housing is a fundamental right that ensures equal access to housing and equal homeownership opportunities. The Fair Housing Act and its additions, including the Equal Opportunity Credit Act and the Americans with Disabilities Act, provide legal protections and procedures that are enforceable by law. There are protections for more specific cases as well that this article didn’t cover. 


The Fair Housing Act is over 50 years old and continues to help people in need. However, while the industry has changed, it is not free from discriminatory practices. Expanding legislation and providing additional resources will help everyone receive the right to housing without discrimination. It will take work, but it is necessary. 



Source: Redfin

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By Dusty Rhodes June 2, 2025
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With thoughtful design, these compact homes can feel just as warm, personal, and inviting as the main house — tailored to meet both emotional and practical needs in a beautifully small footprint.” From planning a new build in Newnan, GA, to upgrading an existing property in Austin, TX, or preparing your Suffolk, VA home for aging parents, this guide offers comprehensive insights into navigating alternative living spaces. What is a mother-in-law suite? In its simplest form, a mother-in-law suite is a residence created within a home, an addition built onto a home, or a separate dwelling unit intended for the use of an in-law or relative. The suite can be either connected to or built on the same lot as a home that’s occupied by other family members. Often, the purpose of a mother-in-law suite is to make it possible for elderly family members to live near their adult children or family members, yet still, maintain their independence and privacy. This is very common in multi-generational households where children often live with their parents and grandparents in the same house. The concept of a mother-in-law suite, or now more popularized as the “granny flat,” has been around for decades. It was most popular in post-WWII America until zoning laws were put in place that eventually shut down their construction. Today, the mother-in-law suite, whether it’s a portion of a house that has been remodeled to accommodate a relative, or a smaller, detached “granny flat,” is beginning to see a resurgence with homeowners. What makes up a mother-in-law suite? A typical mother-in-law suite consists of a sleeping quarter, living quarter, kitchen, and bathroom. Though it can be attached to the main house, the living quarters typically remain separate from the rest of the house and household, yet close enough so grandparents can help with grandchildren, and/or adult children can care for their parents. 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Detached mother-in-law suites: According to Bob Vila , the cost to buy a new prefab detached granny pod can range from as little as $30,000 for a “bare-bones” structure, up to $125,000 on the high end. This includes the cost of delivery and placement on an already constructed concrete pad. Of course, the cost to build a detached structure can be much higher, should you decide to create a smart home for example. Garage mother-in-law suites: Expect to spend $15,000- $20,000 to convert a garage or existing shed into a mother-in-law suite, according to Bob Vila. Typical ranges and variances The cost of a mother-in-law suite varies significantly, as it’s influenced by numerous individual factors. While pinpointing an exact price is challenging, utilizing existing spaces like a basement, attic, or garage can significantly reduce expenses compared to building a new standalone structure. Overall, the cost to create a mother-in-law suite can range from $5,000 to over $300,000. 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Prioritizing features such as no-step entries, wider doorways, and separate entrances ensures comfort, independence, and long-term livability for residents of these specialized living spaces. Oregon: With a focus on innovative housing solutions, Oregon generally has favorable ADU regulations, particularly in urban areas like Portland. Texas : While considered ADU-friendly, it’s crucial to check local county regulations as laws can vary. Cities like Austin are more progressive. Florida : Several counties, such as Sarasota, are becoming more open to ADUs. Arizona : If a tiny house or granny pod is built on a solid foundation, it’s typically considered a secondary dwelling unit and subject to similar regulations as a detached single-family home. Georgia : This state is also among those with increasing acceptance of ADUs. Colorado : While allowing ADUs, Colorado’s regulations often come with specific conditions. Massachusetts : Some cities and towns offer incentives or reduced restrictions to encourage ADU construction. North Carolina : ADU regulations are typically handled at the county level, so investigating local ordinances is important. Utah : Regarding specific state requirements for mother-in-law suites, JP Coles, chief sales and marketing officer for Nest Tiny Homes , notes that in Utah, an ADU or tiny home must be a permanent structure and cannot be on wheels. This means it requires both a concrete foundation and utilities such as water, sewer, and power. Additionally, engineering and architectural plans must be submitted for permits and approved before construction can begin. Washington : Generally becoming more accommodating towards tiny homes and ADUs, especially if built on a permanent foundation, though some regions may have restrictions. Tennessee : Tennessee has a specific law allowing “temporary family health care structures,” under certain conditions related to the occupant’s health and the caregiver’s relationship. Do mother-in-law suites add value to my property? Yes, mother-in-law suites can increase your property’s value , though precisely by how much is difficult to quantify. The variations in in-law suites, finishes, and amenities all impact the value differently. Despite their growing popularity, mother-in-law suites have been challenging for appraisers and real estate professionals to value due to a lack of suitable real estate comparables. However, national averages offer some insight: a basement remodel can increase a home’s value by nearly $50,000, while adding another master suite can increase it by $80,000 on average. Ultimately, the value gained from adding a mother-in-law suite largely depends on your area and the type of addition you make. 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By Dusty Rhodes May 26, 2025
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By Dusty Rhodes May 19, 2025
I remember the first time I noticed this phenomenon. I’d just finished my grocery run, arms heavy with bags, and spotted a stranger crossing the parking lot to return their shopping cart to the designated area. They didn’t look around for applause or do a big show of it. They simply pushed the cart back, then headed to their car with a quiet sense of completion. Watching them, I thought: Why do some folks automatically walk that extra distance, even if it’s raining or their car is way on the other side? It got me thinking about what drives these small acts of kindness. I’ve come to believe that people who return shopping carts have specific mindsets and habits—little glimpses of values that make them who they are. Below are nine traits I’ve noticed in people who take this simple, yet telling, action. 1. They care about the greater good Whenever I see someone returning a cart, it strikes me as a sign of deep consideration for the community around them. They think beyond themselves and understand that leaving a cart in the middle of the parking lot might inconvenience another driver or block a parking space. This mindset might seem minor at first glance, but think about how much of society runs smoothly when we all do small things that help others. It’s a domino effect; a single act of thoughtfulness can prevent a lot of hassle and even accidents. Individuals who instinctively return carts usually carry this communal perspective into other areas of life. They’re the ones who hold doors open, who help neighbors with a heavy load, or who volunteer at local charities when time allows. They see themselves as part of a larger whole, and their actions reflect a desire to keep everything running a little more smoothly for everyone. 2. They value personal accountability I’ve often noticed that people who consistently return shopping carts tend to hold themselves to a higher standard of personal responsibility. They don’t wait for someone else to clean up their mess or pick up the slack. The cart situation is a perfect metaphor: no one is forcing you to bring it back, there’s no penalty if you don’t, and yet some folks do it anyway. They’ve set their own internal rules for behavior, even when no one is watching. At DM News, we’re all about fostering that sense of personal responsibility. Whether it’s returning carts or completing a task at work without being reminded, these small acts build a strong foundation for self-discipline . And with greater self-discipline comes more confidence in your abilities and a clearer sense of what you can achieve in life. 3. They appreciate the impact of micro-actions Some people think grand gestures change the world, but I’ve learned that small, seemingly insignificant decisions can also create real ripple effects. Returning a shopping cart might not earn a gold star from the universe, yet it influences others to do the same. I’ve personally seen how these micro-actions add up. When we start with tiny habits—like making our bed each morning or returning a cart—we’re signaling to our mind that we respect the environment and the people around us. In turn, we become more proactive in other areas, too. Before I embraced this view, I used to underestimate how these mini acts add to a larger picture. Once I realized how good it felt to take consistent, positive steps, my perspective shifted. If you can adopt even one micro-action, you’ll likely find yourself tackling bigger goals with more enthusiasm and follow-through. 4. They challenge limiting beliefs about what’s “worth it” There was a period in my life when I questioned whether small acts were truly valuable. I’d think, “Well, what difference does returning one cart really make?” That was around the same time I discovered Rudá Iandê’s Free Your Mind masterclass . I initially signed up for it because I was struggling to see the point of investing time in tiny efforts—or, truth be told, investing time in myself. During the course, I realized I had deep-rooted beliefs that told me, “Your small actions don’t matter.” Rudá challenged me to look inward and ask: “Am I holding myself back by dismissing the power of daily choices?” The exercises he guided me through helped me see that every decision, no matter how small, is part of building a life that aligns with my values. After completing the masterclass, I noticed a shift. Even returning a shopping cart felt less like a chore and more like a personal statement: My small acts do matter, and I’m capable of creating a positive impact every single day. 5. They embody consistency and follow-through One reason I admire those who always return carts is their consistency. They show up for their principles day after day, not just when it’s convenient. This trait isn’t limited to shopping carts. I’ve seen these individuals keep their promises in group projects, be the first to arrive for a volunteer shift, or stay true to their workout routines even when they’re tired. Consistency is more than a buzzword—it’s a superpower that builds trust with yourself and others. When you know you can rely on your own actions, your self-esteem grows. And let’s face it: if you can’t trust yourself to follow through on small tasks, it becomes harder to tackle the bigger goals life throws your way. Returning a shopping cart is just one sign of that inner commitment. 6. They have a strong sense of empathy I once spoke to a friend who said she returns carts because she remembers her own days working as a supermarket cashier. She recalled being asked—during busy times—to dash outside and gather stray carts in sweltering heat. Her empathy for those employees is what motivates her to always return her cart. Empathy, in this sense, isn’t about grand acts of charity—it’s about understanding that your choices affect real people. In life, empathy can encourage you to check in on a friend who’s going through a hard time or pause to genuinely listen when someone shares a struggle. People who have this strong empathetic drive don’t do it for praise; they do it because they understand how it feels to be on the receiving end of thoughtless actions. They see themselves in the shoes of the cart collector or the next customer, and they choose kindness. 7. They are mindful and present in daily tasks If you’re in a hurry and your mind is racing, it’s easy to leave the cart wherever you feel like. But the people who return it almost effortlessly are usually those who practice being present in the moment. Mindful living isn’t reserved for meditation retreats or sitting quietly in a yoga pose. It’s also about noticing what’s happening right now—like the shopping cart you just used—and completing that tiny loop of responsibility before moving on. When I first started dabbling in mindfulness, I was surprised by how often I left tasks half-finished—dishes in the sink, laundry in the dryer, a half-written email. Returning my cart became a small mindfulness practice in itself. It was a moment to pause, breathe, and complete what I started. People with this trait find that bringing full attention to one task helps them bring the same attention to other areas of life, whether it’s their work or relationships. 8. They understand that character is revealed in small moments Character is often built when no one’s watching. Returning a cart is one of those private decisions that reveal your true attitude about responsibility, kindness, and empathy. Individuals who prioritize these qualities don’t do it to impress a boss or a friend—there’s usually no external reward. They simply align their actions with who they want to be at their core. I’ve learned over time that it’s in the seemingly inconsequential choices—saying “please” and “thank you,” picking up a stray piece of litter, or showing up on time—that we define our character. Each time you decide to do the right thing, you strengthen the muscle of integrity. People who return shopping carts seem to know that all too well. Lastly, people who instinctively take their carts back appear to find genuine happiness in simple acts of kindness. They aren’t waiting for a grand stage to show off their compassion. For them, life’s everyday moments are filled with opportunities to be thoughtful. This mindset carries over into how they treat friends, family, and strangers. Maybe they leave encouraging sticky notes on a coworker’s desk or send a quick text to a friend who’s feeling down. Whatever the case, their generosity isn’t hinged on big gestures—it’s infused into how they move through the world every day. And that’s the beauty of kindness: it doesn’t have to be huge to be meaningful. Sometimes, just returning a shopping cart can remind others that the small stuff matters more than we think. Conclusion What I’ve come to see is that returning a shopping cart is about more than tidiness or convenience. It’s a reflection of personal values—empathy, mindfulness, and a commitment to doing what’s right.
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