Can I Buy a House With Student Loan Debt?

Dusty Rhodes • March 11, 2024

Loan officers break down what you need to know about student debt and owning a home.


Student loans are undoubtedly a daunting financial obstacle, so it’s only natural to feel like they’re holding you back from owning a home. But buying a house with student loan debt is possible. Whether or not you should get a mortgage with student loans will depend on the amount of debt you have and what your personal financial situation looks like, including factors like your income, savings and credit score.

Steven Park and Kathy Argento, mortgage loan officers with Zillow Home Loans, both say owning a home while paying off student loan debt is far more common than many might think.

“If you have a stable source of income and can manage your finances, student loan debt shouldn’t stop you from home ownership,” Park says.

Minimum payments for student loans can be very manageable alongside a mortgage payment, Park adds, depending on how much you owe. And while being debt averse and wanting to pay everything off might seem like the responsible thing to do, it may ultimately lead to missed opportunities.

We asked Park and Argento some of the biggest questions about buying a home while paying off student debt.


Can you get a mortgage with student loans?

It’s not uncommon for a first-time home buyer to have anywhere from $30,000 to $100,000 in student loan debt and still qualify for a mortgage, Park says. “We approve people with student loan debt all the time,” Argento adds. 


Like any other kind of debt, the student loans will simply be part of an applicant’s total debt obligations and credit profile for qualifying purposes. The same considerations apply to car payments, credit card payments and any other personal loans. “It just simply must be counted into their debts,” Argento says, “whether or not they are currently deferred.”


Argento emphasizes, carrying student loan debt should not prevent you from considering buying a home. Instead, talk to your loan officer about how your student loan payments may factor into your application.


Factors that impact buying a house with student loans

Here are some important factors your loan officer may review with you.


Your debt-to-income (DTI) ratio

debt-to-income ratio is the percentage that compares your monthly debt payments to your monthly gross income, giving you a realistic perspective on what you can and can’t afford.


A DTI ratio of 36% or less is generally considered ideal because it will show your lender that you’re not overstretched financially. That said, many lenders will lend with DTI ratios higher than 36%, depending on the borrower’s credit profile, desired loan amount, and other factors. You can use Zillow’s DTI calculator to get a realistic estimate of your personal debt-to-income ratio.


Argento says outstanding student loans have the potential to reduce your purchasing power, depending on the broader financial situation you’re facing. “You should consider paying off your student loans if your debt-to-income ratios are so high, they prevent you from buying a home at your desired price point,” she says. 


But they also might not be hurting your purchasing power at all. It depends on your income, the actual purchase price of the home, any other debts you might have on your credit report and the cost of your new monthly house payment. 


Your credit score

Loan officers will consider your credit score when you apply for a mortgage. Paying student loans on time can affect your credit score, which is why it’s important to make timely payments to keep your score strong


Your savings

When money that you would normally put into savings is going to your monthly debt payments, it can be harder to save for other things — like a down payment or closing costs on a home. Some mortgages do require as little as 3% for a down payment — or even 0% down with a VA loan — but the more you have saved, the more flexibility you’ll have when it comes to purchasing power.


While it may not seem that way, saving for a down payment can still be an option while you’re paying off student loans. Budget and allocate money to buckets that make sense for your lifestyle, so that you can pay down your student loan debt and also reach your home buying goal. Here are 21 creative ways to save.


How to buy a house with student loan debt

Before diving into the process, do yourself a favor and get pre-qualified so you can see exactly how your student debt might affect which loans you do and don’t qualify for. 


Once you’ve done this, there are other steps you can take to move the process along.


Check your credit score and work on improving it if needed

Your credit score is an important part of whether or not you’ll be eligible to buy a home. If you went through a period of time where you weren’t able to pay off your loans and they’re damaging your credit score, look for additional ways to improve your score. For example, focus on paying your credit card bills on time.


If you want more information on how your credit score affects qualifying for a mortgage, check out these Zillow resources that outline how your credit score is calculated and exactly what kind of credit score you’ll need if you’re considering buying a house.


Aim to decrease the number of debts you owe

Say goodbye to as much debt as you can. This will help improve your DTI, which ultimately affects which homes you will and won’t be able to afford. Pay off any manageable outstanding debts — like small credit card bills, medical bills or outstanding car payments. 


Tackling other debt before you take on a mortgage will help set you up for homeownership success. Learn about more ways to pay off debt.


Gut check your financial situation and assess if you can afford to buy a home

Zoom out and take a look at your current budget and projected monthly and annual income before you decide to add a mortgage and other homeownership costs to your spreadsheet. If you don’t know where to begin, Zillow’s affordability calculator can be a good starting point.


Looking at your bank accounts, your current pay and your projected pay is a helpful way to indicate whether or not owning a home will feel manageable to you. 


Consider first-time home buyer or DPA programs

There are first-time home buyer programs, including down payment assistance (DPA) programs, that may help make financing a home more attainable, especially if you’re managing paying off student loans.


Zillow’s guide to first-time home buyer programs will help give you more information on resources you should look into as you explore your options.


Can I buy a house with more than $100K in student loan debt?

Whether or not you can buy a house with more than $100K in student loan debt will depend on your total financial picture. Debt is all relative to the stability and size of your income, Park says. “Luckily, the mortgage industry will prevent someone from overburdening themselves with payments that are too high relative to their income,” he adds.


To decide whether you qualify for a mortgage, lenders will determine your student loan payment based on your credit report and then factor that into your DTI. Your DTI will help determine the maximum loan amount you would qualify for.


Once you take a look at what you can afford based on your current income and monthly student loan payments, you can decide if there’s an alternative path that might help you achieve your home buying goal. Mortgage loan officers won’t be able to give you financial advice, so you should consider speaking to a financial advisor for some clarity on your options. 


For example, financial experts might point to income-driven repayment plans to help you optimize your income and monthly student loan debt — and ultimately, your DTI — in a way that may benefit you when you apply for a mortgage. You might actually be paying more towards your student loan than you need to be, based on how much money you’re making and how much you owe, and an income-driven repayment plan can help resolve that, ultimately making your payments more manageable and an ideal mortgage within reach.


Should you pay off student loans before buying a house?

When considering whether to buy a house or pay off student loans, it’s important to look at where you live and where you stand financially. “Home ownership is not for everyone at every stage of their lives,” Park says. 


If you’re able to afford it, buying a home in today’s rising market is still a favorable investment as homes continue to increase in value, Argento says. “Why pay rent at 100% interest when you can buy a home which will increase in value over time?” she explains. “I have never heard of anyone saying they wish they did not buy a home when they did. Homes continually increase in value over time and will always be a solid investment.”


You have to ask yourself: Do I have what it takes to pay the down payment? Can I afford the monthly payment? Will I be able to continue to make the same payment for the next 10 years? “If you can answer yes to all of these questions, you will most likely benefit from owning a home, and you should start looking for a house,” Park says.




Source: Zillow Porchlight Blog

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I’ve seen these individuals keep their promises in group projects, be the first to arrive for a volunteer shift, or stay true to their workout routines even when they’re tired. Consistency is more than a buzzword—it’s a superpower that builds trust with yourself and others. When you know you can rely on your own actions, your self-esteem grows. And let’s face it: if you can’t trust yourself to follow through on small tasks, it becomes harder to tackle the bigger goals life throws your way. Returning a shopping cart is just one sign of that inner commitment. 6. They have a strong sense of empathy I once spoke to a friend who said she returns carts because she remembers her own days working as a supermarket cashier. She recalled being asked—during busy times—to dash outside and gather stray carts in sweltering heat. Her empathy for those employees is what motivates her to always return her cart. Empathy, in this sense, isn’t about grand acts of charity—it’s about understanding that your choices affect real people. In life, empathy can encourage you to check in on a friend who’s going through a hard time or pause to genuinely listen when someone shares a struggle. People who have this strong empathetic drive don’t do it for praise; they do it because they understand how it feels to be on the receiving end of thoughtless actions. They see themselves in the shoes of the cart collector or the next customer, and they choose kindness. 7. They are mindful and present in daily tasks If you’re in a hurry and your mind is racing, it’s easy to leave the cart wherever you feel like. But the people who return it almost effortlessly are usually those who practice being present in the moment. Mindful living isn’t reserved for meditation retreats or sitting quietly in a yoga pose. It’s also about noticing what’s happening right now—like the shopping cart you just used—and completing that tiny loop of responsibility before moving on. When I first started dabbling in mindfulness, I was surprised by how often I left tasks half-finished—dishes in the sink, laundry in the dryer, a half-written email. Returning my cart became a small mindfulness practice in itself. It was a moment to pause, breathe, and complete what I started. People with this trait find that bringing full attention to one task helps them bring the same attention to other areas of life, whether it’s their work or relationships. 8. They understand that character is revealed in small moments Character is often built when no one’s watching. Returning a cart is one of those private decisions that reveal your true attitude about responsibility, kindness, and empathy. Individuals who prioritize these qualities don’t do it to impress a boss or a friend—there’s usually no external reward. They simply align their actions with who they want to be at their core. I’ve learned over time that it’s in the seemingly inconsequential choices—saying “please” and “thank you,” picking up a stray piece of litter, or showing up on time—that we define our character. Each time you decide to do the right thing, you strengthen the muscle of integrity. People who return shopping carts seem to know that all too well. Lastly, people who instinctively take their carts back appear to find genuine happiness in simple acts of kindness. They aren’t waiting for a grand stage to show off their compassion. For them, life’s everyday moments are filled with opportunities to be thoughtful. This mindset carries over into how they treat friends, family, and strangers. Maybe they leave encouraging sticky notes on a coworker’s desk or send a quick text to a friend who’s feeling down. Whatever the case, their generosity isn’t hinged on big gestures—it’s infused into how they move through the world every day. And that’s the beauty of kindness: it doesn’t have to be huge to be meaningful. Sometimes, just returning a shopping cart can remind others that the small stuff matters more than we think. Conclusion What I’ve come to see is that returning a shopping cart is about more than tidiness or convenience. It’s a reflection of personal values—empathy, mindfulness, and a commitment to doing what’s right.
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