The History of Myrtle Beach

Dusty Rhodes • January 13, 2020

Happy Monday! It's a new year, and with new years come thoughts of beginnings. And of course, beginnings make me think of where we started. Today, I thought we would take a trip down memory lane and learn a little bit about the town that we at Dusty Rhodes Properties call home. Myrtle Beach has been a fixture in the state of South Carolina for decades, and while people from across the world come every year to enjoy it with us locals, it's nice to look back at what really makes Myrtle Beach the town that we know and love. So with that in mind, here's a look into the past, from Carolana.com:


Myrtle Beach was incorporated as a town in 1938 and became a city in 1957. Its name comes from the wax myrtle, a shrub that grows abundantly in the area. Our 25,000 permanent residents welcome millions of visitors to this full-service resort community of Horry County, South Carolina. Guests come to enjoy the wide beaches, the Atlantic Ocean, and an incredible range of activities, entertainment, golf, shopping, and dining.


History records that the first tourists here were a party of Spaniards from Hispaniola, who first landed about forty miles north of present-day Myrtle Beach in 1526 and eventually established the first European settlement in the US about 30 miles to the south. That settlement, San Miguel de Guadelupe at present-day Georgetown, was settled by Lucas Vasquez de Allyon, but abandoned the following year, and the group returned to Hispaniola.


In the next three centuries, the region's population grew, but slowly. In the late 1800s and early 1900s, people began to "vacation" here, although it was quite rustic. Houses and camps were sparse, and there were only few permanent residents at the turn of the century. But, drawn by the ocean, sand and trees, people began to call Myrtle Beach "home" as the 1900s progressed.


Today, Myrtle Beach is a well known destination for vacationers from around the country, Canada, and abroad. According to the 2000 U.S. Census, the city is at the heart of the thirteenth fastest-growing metropolitan area in the US.


Before Europeans arrived on the coast of South Carolina, Native Americans were the sole residents, and they lived off the land and the bounty of the local waters. They were the Waccamaw and Winyah Indians, and they called the area "Chicora," which simply meant "the land." Although documented history of these tribes is scarce, evidence of their existence continues to turn up. Arrowheads have been found on the beach, riverbanks, and in farmers' fields. A burial mound was discovered on Waites Island near Little River. The remains of an Indian village were unearthed on Wachesaw Plantation near Murrells Inlet, including pottery shards, tools, and other artifacts. At the Horry County Museum in Conway, several exhibits shed light on what life was like for these early residents.


With the passing of centuries and the arrival of Europeans, the population and landscape began to change. English colonists laid out plans for Georgetown, the state's third oldest city, in 1729. Surrounded by rivers and marshlands, Georgetown became the center of America's rice empire. Crops of indigo, cotton, and lumber also contributed to the wealthy economy. A rich plantation culture took root here and flourished, in no small measure as a result of the diligence and manpower of African slaves, many with first-hand knowledge of rice cultivation from their homelands.


Before the American Civil War, wealthy plantation owners turned Pawleys Island into one of the first summer resorts on the Atlantic coast. Planters and their families spent summers on the cool, breezy island to avoid malaria and other deadly diseases associated with the more swampy, still conditions of the plantation sites. Historic cottages, inns, and other buildings still stand on Pawleys Island, which is in northern Georgetown County just a few miles south of Myrtle Beach.


After the American Civil War and the emancipation of slaves, Georgetown's rice plantation culture disappeared, leaving behind a rich history and culture that residents hold dear. Hopsewee and other historic plantations, Georgetown's Rice Museum, and Brookgreen Gardens offer glimpses into Georgetown's past. The Georgetown Historic District, with its historic churches and homes, is listed on the National Register of Historic Places.


Horry County (pronounced "oh-ree" or "or-ee"), bounded by rivers on one side and the Atlantic Ocean on the other, was cut off from the plantation culture that flourished elsewhere along the coast. Horry residents, in what is now the Conway area, were hardworking farmers, timbermen, and turpentine distillers who bartered for their necessities. A typical family in 1875 earned approximately $2.50 a year in what was nearly a cashless economy.


Until the 1900s, bridges and railroads from Conway to the beaches did not exist; only struggling farmers and fishermen inhabited these distant beaches. Eventually, in pursuit of summer recreation, families from Conway were ferried across the Waccamaw River and rode in wagons from the river to the beach - which was essentially completely devoid of any commercial development prior to 1900.


In 1900, Burroughs & Collins Company, a timber-turpentine firm with extensive beachfront holdings, began developing the resort potential of the Grand Strand by constructing a railroad to the beach - the Conway & Seacoast Railroad. The company built the first hotel, the Seaside Inn, in 1901. At that time, oceanfront lots sold for $25 to those with ready cash. Less affluent individuals could purchase a lot one row back and pay in yearly installments of $2.50. Buyers received an extra lot free if they built a home valued at $500 or more. Mrs. F. E. Burroughs, wife of the founder of the Burroughs & Collins Company, hosted (and won) a contest to name the town. Myrtle Beach was chosen because of the many wax myrtle trees growing wild along the shore. Prior to this, the villages was referred to as New Town or Newtown.


In 1912, Chicago businessman Simeon B. Chapin purchased property and invested capital in the town's development. Myrtle Beach's public park and adjacent library are named for him. Another landmark bearing his name is the Franklin G. Burroughs-Simeon B. Chapin Art Museum.


In the 1920s, a group of businessmen built an upscale resort called Arcady at the north end of the community. The legendary resort was the rage among affluent society and included the present Pine Lakes International Country Club, the area's first golf club (and birthplace of the magazine Sports Illustrated), and the grand Ocean Forest Hotel. The Ocean Forest, with its 300 rooms, indoor and outdoor pools, health club, stables, and crystal chandeliers, remained the center of Myrtle Beach social life for nearly thirty years. The stately building was torn down in 1974 to allow for new development.


The Intracoastal Waterway was opened to pleasure boats and commercial shipping in 1936, and Myrtle Beach was incorporated in 1938. The Myrtle Beach Air Force Base was established in the 1940s and used for coastal patrols during World War II. The Myrtle Beach Pavilion opened in 1949 and continues to delight families year after year. Hurricanes have always played a crucial role in Myrtle Beach area history and development. In 1954, Hurricane Hazel demolished buildings and trees all along the Strand and, consequently, cleared the way for newer, larger hotels and homes.


During the 1960s, a golf boom began in which new courses were opened nearly every year. Today, the Grand Strand boasts more than 120 golf courses. In the 1970s and '80s, construction of attractions, homes, retail shops, and other developments increased steadily, triggering another boom in the early '90s that resulted in the Myrtle Beach area becoming one of the fastest growing metropolitan areas in the country. 


Phenomenal expansion and development have contributed to the Grand Strand's national reputation as a year-round resort, with numerous hotels, golf courses, restaurants, theaters, entertainment/shopping complexes, and attractions. Each year, nearly 13 million visitors come to the Grand Strand, and thousands of new residents relocate to the area.



Source: Carolana.com


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By Dusty Rhodes June 2, 2025
Ever feel like you could use a little more… personal space? Or perhaps your family dynamics could benefit from a touch of architectural ingenuity? Enter the granny pod, also known as the mother-in-law suite, an increasingly popular housing solution that’s way more than just a spare bedroom. These aren’t your grandma’s dusty attic; they’re thoughtfully designed, often self-contained living spaces popping up in backyards across the country. Paola Jean-Marain with Tiny Eco Homes UK shares, “Mother-in-law suites offer a unique way to keep loved ones close while still maintaining independence and privacy. With thoughtful design, these compact homes can feel just as warm, personal, and inviting as the main house — tailored to meet both emotional and practical needs in a beautifully small footprint.” From planning a new build in Newnan, GA, to upgrading an existing property in Austin, TX, or preparing your Suffolk, VA home for aging parents, this guide offers comprehensive insights into navigating alternative living spaces. What is a mother-in-law suite? In its simplest form, a mother-in-law suite is a residence created within a home, an addition built onto a home, or a separate dwelling unit intended for the use of an in-law or relative. The suite can be either connected to or built on the same lot as a home that’s occupied by other family members. Often, the purpose of a mother-in-law suite is to make it possible for elderly family members to live near their adult children or family members, yet still, maintain their independence and privacy. This is very common in multi-generational households where children often live with their parents and grandparents in the same house. The concept of a mother-in-law suite, or now more popularized as the “granny flat,” has been around for decades. It was most popular in post-WWII America until zoning laws were put in place that eventually shut down their construction. Today, the mother-in-law suite, whether it’s a portion of a house that has been remodeled to accommodate a relative, or a smaller, detached “granny flat,” is beginning to see a resurgence with homeowners. What makes up a mother-in-law suite? A typical mother-in-law suite consists of a sleeping quarter, living quarter, kitchen, and bathroom. Though it can be attached to the main house, the living quarters typically remain separate from the rest of the house and household, yet close enough so grandparents can help with grandchildren, and/or adult children can care for their parents. Mother-in-law suites can be as simple as a single room that has a bed, couch, and place to eat, along with access to a bathroom, but ideally, it would have its own private bathroom. They can also be located in a separate portion of the house, such as a basement with a separate door, garage, or attic that has been remodeled and suited to the residents’ needs. The growing allure: Why are mother-in-law suites gaining traction? Mother-in-law suites are becoming an increasingly popular home trend among families. One significant driver is the rise of multigenerational households; according to USA Today, approximately 51 million Americans live in such arrangements, a 10% increase since 2007. This living situation allows both generations to share in the financial responsibilities of homeownership. Beyond financial sharing, these suites can offer independent living for post-graduate adult children, helping them manage debt as they begin their careers and save for their own homes. The sharp increase in assisted living facility costs for aging adults is another compelling reason for their popularity. The national average monthly cost for assisted living in 2024 is around $4,917, a sum that can create a financial strain on both parents and children. A granny pod, however, can be a more affordable long-term solution, potentially breaking even within a few years when compared to nursing home care, which can average over $100,000 per year for a private room. Finally, the surge in permanent work-from-home arrangements has also fueled interest in in-law suites. Pew Research indicates that about 54% of employed workers desire to work from home, nearly a 30% increase from before the Coronavirus pandemic. Many prefer a designated area for work, keeping it separate from the main family living space. What are the common types of mother-in-law suites? Mother-in-law suites come in several forms, each offering distinct advantages: Interior mother-in-law suites: These are situated within the main family residence. This could involve a converted basement or a section of the main house, like a study or den. Some homes are designed with floor plans that readily accommodate extended family members, featuring bedrooms at opposite ends of the house and separate bathroom facilities for both generations, though they might share a living room, dining area, and kitchen. If a basement is transformed into an in-law suite, it typically includes its own kitchen, bedroom, bath, and living area, often with a walk-out basement providing a separate entrance. Attached mother-in-law suites: This type involves a separate living space built onto an existing home, often as an addition to the side or back of the house. Detached mother-in-law suites: Detached mother-in-law suites, also known as accessory dwelling units (ADUs) or secondary suites, are typically smaller, independent homes built on the same lot as a single-family residential house. These structures offer significant flexibility, varying in size, features, and styles to suit individual tastes and needs. Ian Butcher, Founding Partner of Best Practice Architecture , frequently receives inquiries about these detached units. He notes they are excellent for helping aging family members live autonomously yet safely close by, or they can serve as a valuable source of passive income or a supportive landing spot for a college graduate returning home. While regulations for detached ADUs are easing, such projects can still be complex and expensive. Even if simple, they are complete homes requiring a kitchen, bathroom, and all systems of a larger residence. Butcher emphasizes understanding local development rules, including property lines, setbacks, lot coverage, and parking. He stresses that hiring a licensed professional is crucial to navigate the project. He also recommends planning for flexible usage and creating distinct private yard spaces for both the primary home and the new detached ADU Attic or garage In-law suites: This involves remodeling the garage or attic portion of the home to accommodate relatives. The remodel usually includes a bedroom, bathroom, kitchen, and living area. An attic space over a stand-alone garage can offer even greater privacy than an attic within the main house. “As these specific tiny units are meant to be occupied by elderly people who may have some mobility difficulties, it is essential to consider accessibility and ergonomics. Typically, when designing in a tiny space, some recommended distances and sizes are reduced to fit more in the limited space. But when elderly people are the inhabitants, it is crucial to have enough free space and room around objects, and this is especially true if we talk about the bathroom. Tiny enclosed shower cubicles are definitely a no-go, as well as high thresholds. When planning for an appropriate position in the garden, consider having wider, lower steps with a good, solid railing for support, if the house is raised above the ground level. Ideally, accommodate a gently inclined ramp instead of stairs.” – Hristina Hristova, Co-founder/partner at Koleliba How much does a mother-in-law suite cost to build? The cost to build a mother-in-law suite varies greatly depending on which type of mother-in-law suite best suits your situation, how big of a suite you plan to build, and the specific amenities you want to incorporate into the space. Let’s look at each option a little closer. Interior mother-in-law suites: Like each of these options, you can spend quite a bit remodeling or finishing a basement into a mother-in-law suite. However, redoing a basement or portion of the main house into a separate suite for mom can be a less expensive option than building a detached mother-in-law residence from scratch. According to HGTV, it can cost less than $3,000 to more than $200,000 to convert a basement into extra usable space. Keep in mind when working in a basement, you could run into problematic issues such as water damage that would require costly remediation before you ever even get started on the actual addition. Attached mother-in-law suites: Buildinganadu.com states that the cost to build a 500 square foot attached mother-in-law suite costs as little as $106,000 or up to $216,000 depending on the full scope of the project. Again, this can vary depending upon the size of the space, how elaborate it is, and whether you decide to do any of the work yourself. Detached mother-in-law suites: According to Bob Vila , the cost to buy a new prefab detached granny pod can range from as little as $30,000 for a “bare-bones” structure, up to $125,000 on the high end. This includes the cost of delivery and placement on an already constructed concrete pad. Of course, the cost to build a detached structure can be much higher, should you decide to create a smart home for example. Garage mother-in-law suites: Expect to spend $15,000- $20,000 to convert a garage or existing shed into a mother-in-law suite, according to Bob Vila. Typical ranges and variances The cost of a mother-in-law suite varies significantly, as it’s influenced by numerous individual factors. While pinpointing an exact price is challenging, utilizing existing spaces like a basement, attic, or garage can significantly reduce expenses compared to building a new standalone structure. Overall, the cost to create a mother-in-law suite can range from $5,000 to over $300,000. According to HomeGuide , converting an existing space typically falls between $5,000 and $100,000, whereas new additions or detached structures can range from $30,000 to $280,000. How do you build a mother-in-law suite? Building a mother-in-law suite takes forethought and planning, as you might expect. Whether you are adding an addition to the main house, remodeling a garage or basement, or going all out and building a separate structure in the backyard, you will need to check codes and ordinances to determine what is, and isn’t allowed in your area. These zoning laws, occupancy codes, and even homeowner’s association covenants, conditions, and restrictions (CCRs) will dictate exactly what you can do. Once you have verified that your project is permitted , you will need to decide how much, if any, sweat equity you will put into the project, or if you would rather pay to have someone else complete the whole project for you. As you prepare to start building, think about the future use of the suite, especially if you are building a detached unit. You may want to rent the unit out and having separate electricity, water, and gas run to the ADU will enable you to keep utilities separate from the main house. This will also allow you to shut them completely off if the building were to be vacant for a period of time. Keep your relative’s needs in mind when you are in the design stage as well. Will doors need to be built that can accommodate a walker or wheelchair? Do handrails need to be placed in the bathrooms? How about a zero-curb shower entrance? Thinking about the future can make a more seamless transition for your relatives down the road. What else can mother-in-law suites be used for? Sometime in the future, your mother-in-law suite may become vacant. If so, there are various options that you can do with that space, regardless of whether it’s attached to the main house, built into the basement, or is a completely separate structure. Houses with mother-in-law suites can double as a backyard office , a long-term rental property (check your local codes), an Airbnb, a business endeavor such as a yoga studio or art studio, a home gym, nanny quarters, or even a commercial kitchen for a baking/cooking business. A vacant, detached in-law suite could also just be used as a she-shed or man cave, the possibilities are endless. Where can you build a mother-in-law suite? The legal landscape for this living setup, often officially known as accessory dwelling units (ADUs), varies considerably across the United States. However, several states have implemented more ADU-friendly legislation, simplifying the process for homeowners to add these structures. Understanding state-level opportunities California: California leads the movement for mother-in-law suites, having enacted statewide legislation to streamline the permitting process and encourage their development. Cities like Fresno were early adopters. Robert Voight , owner and general contractor in Orange County, highlights that homeowners there can typically build units up to 1,200 sq ft, with four-foot setbacks and reduced parking requirements near transit. He adds that while planning, design, and permitting for a granny pod or mother-in-law suite might take four to six months, construction typically averages another five to seven months. Modern mother-in-law suites now often incorporate smart home integration, energy-efficient systems, and adaptable layouts designed to accommodate multigenerational living, remote work, or wellness spaces. Prioritizing features such as no-step entries, wider doorways, and separate entrances ensures comfort, independence, and long-term livability for residents of these specialized living spaces. Oregon: With a focus on innovative housing solutions, Oregon generally has favorable ADU regulations, particularly in urban areas like Portland. Texas : While considered ADU-friendly, it’s crucial to check local county regulations as laws can vary. Cities like Austin are more progressive. Florida : Several counties, such as Sarasota, are becoming more open to ADUs. Arizona : If a tiny house or granny pod is built on a solid foundation, it’s typically considered a secondary dwelling unit and subject to similar regulations as a detached single-family home. Georgia : This state is also among those with increasing acceptance of ADUs. Colorado : While allowing ADUs, Colorado’s regulations often come with specific conditions. Massachusetts : Some cities and towns offer incentives or reduced restrictions to encourage ADU construction. North Carolina : ADU regulations are typically handled at the county level, so investigating local ordinances is important. Utah : Regarding specific state requirements for mother-in-law suites, JP Coles, chief sales and marketing officer for Nest Tiny Homes , notes that in Utah, an ADU or tiny home must be a permanent structure and cannot be on wheels. This means it requires both a concrete foundation and utilities such as water, sewer, and power. Additionally, engineering and architectural plans must be submitted for permits and approved before construction can begin. Washington : Generally becoming more accommodating towards tiny homes and ADUs, especially if built on a permanent foundation, though some regions may have restrictions. Tennessee : Tennessee has a specific law allowing “temporary family health care structures,” under certain conditions related to the occupant’s health and the caregiver’s relationship. Do mother-in-law suites add value to my property? Yes, mother-in-law suites can increase your property’s value , though precisely by how much is difficult to quantify. The variations in in-law suites, finishes, and amenities all impact the value differently. Despite their growing popularity, mother-in-law suites have been challenging for appraisers and real estate professionals to value due to a lack of suitable real estate comparables. However, national averages offer some insight: a basement remodel can increase a home’s value by nearly $50,000, while adding another master suite can increase it by $80,000 on average. Ultimately, the value gained from adding a mother-in-law suite largely depends on your area and the type of addition you make. As a seller, recognize that your home might not appeal to everyone, especially if you convert one of two garage spaces into a mother-in-law suite in a neighborhood where two-car garages are standard. Conversely, expanding your home to accommodate a relative could significantly increase its overall value and appeal to homebuyers when you decide to sell. Beyond monetary gain, there’s also the personal value this extra space provides while you’re using it, whether for elderly relatives, frequent guests, or a recent college graduate. If you want to know more about your property value, use Redfin’s home value estimator to get a free, instant home-value estimate, see nearby sales and market trends, and update your home facts and photos. 
By Dusty Rhodes May 26, 2025
Eager to reduce scrubbing time? Get expert advice on making easy maintenance part of your kitchen plan The kitchen tends to be the room in our home that needs the most cleaning. The good news is that, with a little planning, you can have a design that makes cleaning a breeze and allows you to spend less time mopping and more time enjoying your space. Get out these seven tips for an easy-to-clean kitchen. 1. Buy Easy-Clean Appliances It’s understandable to be dazzled by the performance or look of a smart new kitchen appliance, but Eva Byrne of Houseology suggests that you also consider potential purchases with a view to keeping them clean. “Choose a [range] that’s fuss-free and easy to wipe down without needing any exotic lotions or solutions,” Byrne says. “Have a good look at details, such as the knobs on your oven, to make sure there are no hard-to-get-at nooks. Knobs that are too close together mean you can’t get a cloth between them, for example.” Designer Nicolle Whyte agrees and suggests choosing an induction cooktop, “as it’s flat, easy and safe to clean.” Furthermore, Louise Delaney, design manager at Cameron Interiors , says, induction cooktops save you from having to clean the grates and other parts found on gas cooktops.“We recommend choosing appliances with cleaning programs included. Let your appliance do the cleaning for you!” She suggests choosing ovens with pyrolytic cleaning functions (which heat the oven to high temperatures to burn off residue), steam ovens with automatic steam cleaning and drying programs, and coffee machines with automatic cleaning. 2. Pick a Simple Backsplash Tile is a popular choice for a kitchen backsplash, but if you don’t want to spend time scrubbing grout to keep it sparkling clean, there are other options. If you’re set on tile, pick a large-format style to minimize the amount of grout you have to clean. If you choose a glass backsplash, you won’t have to deal with grout at all, Whyte says. 3. Favor Flat-Front Cabinets “Selecting smooth furniture fronts prevents cooking residue forming on decorative grooves and ridges,” Delaney says. Watch out for cutout pulls, though, since they can harbor crumbs. 4. Choose Your Countertop Material Wisely “Select materials such as Corian, quartz, steel or sintered stone [mineral and stone particles bound together with heat and pressure], which are nonporous, prevent stains and are easy to wipe clean,” Delaney says. “Solid-surface [countertops], such as Corian, are probably the most hygienic,” Whyte says. “They have a seamless finish and therefore don’t have grooves to trap dirt. This is why you see them used in hospitals and fast-food chains.” 5. Use Durable Paint If you have painted walls in your kitchen, you’ll need to wipe them down more often than the walls in other rooms. Choosing a hardwearing paint finish will make this job easier. “Use an oil-based eggshell [finish], as you can easily wipe this clean without damaging the paint,” Whyte says. 6. Avoid Open Shelves Open shelves may look attractive when beautifully styled, but they can be a high-maintenance cleaning option if you have to move dishes, books and decorative objects just to run a duster over the surface. For a fuss-free kitchen design, Byrne recommends avoiding open shelves “that gather dust and grime” and springing for wall cabinets instead. 7. Use Drawer and Shelf Liners Drawers can be a bit of a minefield to keep tidy, with crumbs and dust sifting down to settle at the bottom. To keep on top of this, Byrne suggests lining drawers and shelves “with wipeable liner material, cut to size, to prolong the life of your units.” Whyte agrees and suggests choosing “a melamine finish on the inside of cabinets, as it doesn’t absorb spillages like oak or walnut would.”
By Dusty Rhodes May 19, 2025
I remember the first time I noticed this phenomenon. I’d just finished my grocery run, arms heavy with bags, and spotted a stranger crossing the parking lot to return their shopping cart to the designated area. They didn’t look around for applause or do a big show of it. They simply pushed the cart back, then headed to their car with a quiet sense of completion. Watching them, I thought: Why do some folks automatically walk that extra distance, even if it’s raining or their car is way on the other side? It got me thinking about what drives these small acts of kindness. I’ve come to believe that people who return shopping carts have specific mindsets and habits—little glimpses of values that make them who they are. Below are nine traits I’ve noticed in people who take this simple, yet telling, action. 1. They care about the greater good Whenever I see someone returning a cart, it strikes me as a sign of deep consideration for the community around them. They think beyond themselves and understand that leaving a cart in the middle of the parking lot might inconvenience another driver or block a parking space. This mindset might seem minor at first glance, but think about how much of society runs smoothly when we all do small things that help others. It’s a domino effect; a single act of thoughtfulness can prevent a lot of hassle and even accidents. Individuals who instinctively return carts usually carry this communal perspective into other areas of life. They’re the ones who hold doors open, who help neighbors with a heavy load, or who volunteer at local charities when time allows. They see themselves as part of a larger whole, and their actions reflect a desire to keep everything running a little more smoothly for everyone. 2. They value personal accountability I’ve often noticed that people who consistently return shopping carts tend to hold themselves to a higher standard of personal responsibility. They don’t wait for someone else to clean up their mess or pick up the slack. The cart situation is a perfect metaphor: no one is forcing you to bring it back, there’s no penalty if you don’t, and yet some folks do it anyway. They’ve set their own internal rules for behavior, even when no one is watching. At DM News, we’re all about fostering that sense of personal responsibility. Whether it’s returning carts or completing a task at work without being reminded, these small acts build a strong foundation for self-discipline . And with greater self-discipline comes more confidence in your abilities and a clearer sense of what you can achieve in life. 3. They appreciate the impact of micro-actions Some people think grand gestures change the world, but I’ve learned that small, seemingly insignificant decisions can also create real ripple effects. Returning a shopping cart might not earn a gold star from the universe, yet it influences others to do the same. I’ve personally seen how these micro-actions add up. When we start with tiny habits—like making our bed each morning or returning a cart—we’re signaling to our mind that we respect the environment and the people around us. In turn, we become more proactive in other areas, too. Before I embraced this view, I used to underestimate how these mini acts add to a larger picture. Once I realized how good it felt to take consistent, positive steps, my perspective shifted. If you can adopt even one micro-action, you’ll likely find yourself tackling bigger goals with more enthusiasm and follow-through. 4. They challenge limiting beliefs about what’s “worth it” There was a period in my life when I questioned whether small acts were truly valuable. I’d think, “Well, what difference does returning one cart really make?” That was around the same time I discovered Rudá Iandê’s Free Your Mind masterclass . I initially signed up for it because I was struggling to see the point of investing time in tiny efforts—or, truth be told, investing time in myself. During the course, I realized I had deep-rooted beliefs that told me, “Your small actions don’t matter.” Rudá challenged me to look inward and ask: “Am I holding myself back by dismissing the power of daily choices?” The exercises he guided me through helped me see that every decision, no matter how small, is part of building a life that aligns with my values. After completing the masterclass, I noticed a shift. Even returning a shopping cart felt less like a chore and more like a personal statement: My small acts do matter, and I’m capable of creating a positive impact every single day. 5. They embody consistency and follow-through One reason I admire those who always return carts is their consistency. They show up for their principles day after day, not just when it’s convenient. This trait isn’t limited to shopping carts. I’ve seen these individuals keep their promises in group projects, be the first to arrive for a volunteer shift, or stay true to their workout routines even when they’re tired. Consistency is more than a buzzword—it’s a superpower that builds trust with yourself and others. When you know you can rely on your own actions, your self-esteem grows. And let’s face it: if you can’t trust yourself to follow through on small tasks, it becomes harder to tackle the bigger goals life throws your way. Returning a shopping cart is just one sign of that inner commitment. 6. They have a strong sense of empathy I once spoke to a friend who said she returns carts because she remembers her own days working as a supermarket cashier. She recalled being asked—during busy times—to dash outside and gather stray carts in sweltering heat. Her empathy for those employees is what motivates her to always return her cart. Empathy, in this sense, isn’t about grand acts of charity—it’s about understanding that your choices affect real people. In life, empathy can encourage you to check in on a friend who’s going through a hard time or pause to genuinely listen when someone shares a struggle. People who have this strong empathetic drive don’t do it for praise; they do it because they understand how it feels to be on the receiving end of thoughtless actions. They see themselves in the shoes of the cart collector or the next customer, and they choose kindness. 7. They are mindful and present in daily tasks If you’re in a hurry and your mind is racing, it’s easy to leave the cart wherever you feel like. But the people who return it almost effortlessly are usually those who practice being present in the moment. Mindful living isn’t reserved for meditation retreats or sitting quietly in a yoga pose. It’s also about noticing what’s happening right now—like the shopping cart you just used—and completing that tiny loop of responsibility before moving on. When I first started dabbling in mindfulness, I was surprised by how often I left tasks half-finished—dishes in the sink, laundry in the dryer, a half-written email. Returning my cart became a small mindfulness practice in itself. It was a moment to pause, breathe, and complete what I started. People with this trait find that bringing full attention to one task helps them bring the same attention to other areas of life, whether it’s their work or relationships. 8. They understand that character is revealed in small moments Character is often built when no one’s watching. Returning a cart is one of those private decisions that reveal your true attitude about responsibility, kindness, and empathy. Individuals who prioritize these qualities don’t do it to impress a boss or a friend—there’s usually no external reward. They simply align their actions with who they want to be at their core. I’ve learned over time that it’s in the seemingly inconsequential choices—saying “please” and “thank you,” picking up a stray piece of litter, or showing up on time—that we define our character. Each time you decide to do the right thing, you strengthen the muscle of integrity. People who return shopping carts seem to know that all too well. Lastly, people who instinctively take their carts back appear to find genuine happiness in simple acts of kindness. They aren’t waiting for a grand stage to show off their compassion. For them, life’s everyday moments are filled with opportunities to be thoughtful. This mindset carries over into how they treat friends, family, and strangers. Maybe they leave encouraging sticky notes on a coworker’s desk or send a quick text to a friend who’s feeling down. Whatever the case, their generosity isn’t hinged on big gestures—it’s infused into how they move through the world every day. And that’s the beauty of kindness: it doesn’t have to be huge to be meaningful. Sometimes, just returning a shopping cart can remind others that the small stuff matters more than we think. Conclusion What I’ve come to see is that returning a shopping cart is about more than tidiness or convenience. It’s a reflection of personal values—empathy, mindfulness, and a commitment to doing what’s right.
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